I never liked Corey Haim. Growing up I used to see him and his buddy Corey Feldman in movies and on TV, usually acting obnoxious in some way or other. Smug. Brash. Cocky. Just a few words to describe this duo. They were The Corey’s. Teenagers given too much money and fame too fast. As a teenager myself growing up in the 80’s they had everything that I wanted. Money. Girls. Fame. But like them or not, they were a product of the 80’s, and I own the Coreys every bit as much as I own the 80’s as my teenage formative years. So Corey Haim was a part of my generation.
You often wonder what makes these young stars so wild and crazy. I used to wonder if Corey Haim was always like that. In a manic state, floating from party to party, girl to girl, gig to gig. Somewhere it all stopped, and we didn’t hear much about Corey Haim anymore. It was almost like he just got swept under the rug of Hollywood, like so many child actors are. He hit the peak of his life before the age of 18 years old. How does one go on living knowing that the best has already past them at such a young age?
I thought that this was probably Corey’s struggle. You hit it big, then you are yesterdays news. What do you do with the rest of your life now? I didn’t know that there was much more to this story.
A few years ago A&E aired a reality show called The Two Corey’s. It reunited Corey Haim with his old pal Corey Feldman after all these years. Cameras followed them around as they were making what was supposed to be their triumphant comeback filiming the sequel to the classic vampire flick The Lost Boys.
From the opening episode it was apparent that time hadn’t been very kind to Corey Haim. He was unemployed, slovenly, and an addict. His behavior was erratic. He couldn’t keep himself together. Corey Feldman struggled to find a way to keep his friend afloat. In the end, his drug-induced anxiety led to Corey being almost completely written out of his last comeback movie.
Now Corey Haim is dead. Probably because of a drug overdose, but probably from so much more.
I scoured the internet to see what people were saying about Corey. One media source cited Corey’s 2007 Nightline interview where he admitted drugs hurt his career. Or his 2004 Sun interview where he admitted that he smoked his first joint on the set of The Lost Boys. Another outlet offered how his cocaine use led to crack. In his Larry King interview in 2007 he explained how he was “a chronic relapser for the rest of (his) life.”
All of these reports coming out covering his prescription medication and drug abuse, as if this was the explanation for why Corey is no longer here. I couldn’t believe how we all missed it completely.
The answer to the question of why took me back to the The Two Coreys. In one episode, they decided to see a therapist together. Corey Haim and Corey Feldman shared a terrible secret. An adult friend of Feldman’s raped Corey Haim. A friend Feldman kept around after knowing what he did. During the therapy session you could see the pain that this had caused Haim.
Just for a brief moment I understood what underlied this cocky and obnoxious persona I resented back in the 80’s. The drugs only masked the deeper pain that none of us male survivors ever want to deal with.
But Haim did deal with his trauma in the only way that men know how. In 2008 he explained, “It’s something that will be addressed in my inner soul for the rest of my life, and it’s something that truly affects me . . . It’s just like, it happened, it’s over, and move on. Let’s move on to the next subject.”
But he never could.
Corey Haim, the Lost Boy, passed on March 10,2010. A drug overdose is suspected as the cause of death.